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Religious Exploration Visioning Workshop

 

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Berkeley Fellowship of Unitarian Universalists

Religious Exploration Visioning Workshop

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Led by Jeanelyse Doran Adams, Director of Program Development, Pacific Central District

 

 

Participant Reflections

The workshop with Jeanelyse Doran Adams had 15 people from the BFUU community in attendance.  The fact that we even HAD a workshop on the present and future vision for Religious Exploration is a HUGE testimony to the commitment we have to a stronger presence in the lives of families living in the neighborhood. It was a good third step (after applying for the grant and then hiring Beth Dana as our Director) but there are many more steps ahead.  I trust we will continue on the path we're on to make our programs a vital part of the future of BFUU. Thanks to all who attended and to all of you who will become more involved as we grow.....It really takes a village! Our thanks to the Pacific Central District for their continued support. --Rev. Ben Meyers

 

I found that the RE visioning workshop was indeed an opportunity to brainstorm about the future of our RE program at BFUU. In the workshop, I appreciated the acknowledgement of some of the good work already being done in our congregation, such as the oral history grant project by Lena Richardson. I believe Lena's work could serve as a template for the growth of the RE program. Lena's work seems to have galvanized the talents of many new young adults to join in the life of BFUU, while honoring the contributions of BFUU's old-timers at the same time. Likewise, by bringing in new families to BFUU, we could galvanize the talents of a new crop of UU parents to teach and further publicize the work of the RE program. At the same time, we could further engage the talents of long-time members, such as Dolores and her dance talents, so that long-time members are also enhancing the RE program and contributing to its growth. I pledged long-term to contribute my energies to a program to serve at-risk young adults, homeless or otherwise, or to serve English as a Second Language adult learners, whichever would most serve the community. Both of these programs could have strong tie-ins to BFUU's RE program. I feel committed to this goal in my long-term vision of serving BFUU. --Cecilia Owen

 

Right here in the heart of Berkeley

There is a place for children

A place for tender souls

A place to learn

A place to play

A place to be nurtured

A place to be spiritual

A place to be heard

A place to be shaped

A place to grow

By the bye

We have many grandparents to share

With your child

Isn’t that wild??

We don’t twitter

We don’t tweet

We are here for your child

Isn’t that neat?!

--Poem by Gene Herma

 

On March 14, 2010 17 people from the BFUU community gathered to discuss and envision the future of lifespan religious exploration in this congregation. The workshop began with an opening reading and song, and the dedication of a children’s chalice that workshop leader Jeanelyse Doran Adams donatedto BFUU.

 

Starting a Religious Exploration Program is a radical act of faith and love!

 

Creating Memories

The workshop began with a reflection on our memories of RE, or what we imagine would be most memorable for children. Here are some the highlights:

  • Stories
  • Crafts
  • Congregation open to ideas from kids
  • Caring adults
  • Beacon Press books
  • Play
  • Field trips
  • Exposure to world religion
  • Exploring spiritual questions
  • Power of imagination
  • Transportation and outreach
  • Children told they are loved
  • Learn by teaching RE
  • Children and people of all ages feel seen and get to know themselves through the lens of people around them

 

Welcoming Space

Jeanelyse shared the observation that children often imitate or reflect their surrounding environment and community. Look around the BFUU space, and the Fellowship Hall. Does it look like children are here? Will families feel welcome? How can we change the environment to be more welcoming to people of all ages? What if there were images of children and families on the wall? What if there were art by children around the fellowship?

 

Trends – How Will We Adapt to a Changing World?

  • Parents are having children later in life
  • Parents need help raising children with their values
  • Parents are spending more time with their children – churches can provide activities for families to participate in together

 

Values

Why is RE important to BFUU?

  • History of BFUU RE
  • Our location in the heart of Berkeley
  • Ministering to displaced and split families
  • WE can be a family
  • Importance of women’s leadership
  • We teach that it’s OK to be different
  • Faith development leads to a better world
  • We have lots of grandparents!
  • Awareness of homeless and isolated youth
  • Lots of families in the neighborhood
  • Opportunities for kids to express themselves and be heard
  • Learning and growth motivate people toward leadership and leadership can be an opportunity for more learning and growth – it’s a two-way street!

 

What We Offer

The workshop participants brainstormed the ways that we currently do RE at BFUU.

  • Story for All Ages
  • Friendly role models for children
  • Child-friendly RE space inside and out
  • Life-altering events all the time (BFUU is a community center!!)
  • Social justice events
  • Oral History Project and story circles
  • RE Sunday
  • Together in Exploration – small group spiritual exploration for adults
  • Nonviolent Communication Workshops
  • Host workshops with the Berkeley Disaster Preparedness Network
  • Intergenerational services
  • Sunday morning children’s program

 

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Vision

The workshop participants envisioned what RE would look like at BFUU in three years (March 2013). Imagine the possibilities!

 

Mission Centered – Values Based – Connected to the Surrounding Community

 


  • Vibrant
  • Joyful
  • Inspiring
  • Our Whole Lives (OWL) classes full six months in advance
  • Curiosity
  • Children participating and performing in services
  • Webcast of services on community TV
  • Team teaching has built friendships
  • Seminary students contributing to RE classes
  • Clean, attractive facility
  • Full-Time Volunteer Manager
  • Life energy
  • Play and laughter
  • Reputation in community for our RE program
  • All people in the room have been a participant, teacher, and/or leader in RE opportunities in the congregation
  • Begin with those who are here, then expand
  • Connected, covered path between our buildings
  • Elders are skilled and entertaining storytellers
  • Hall is bursting at the seams….come early to get a seat
  • Sun panels on the roof
  • Music, poetry events for young adults and youth on Fri/Sat nights
  • News article headline: “Next Generation of Berkeley”
  • Art around the hall
  • Multigenerational stories
  • Adults inspired by children
  • Children singing….just like angels.
  • Full-Time Director of RE
  • Celebratory carrot cake says: we are life-long learners!

 

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On March 14th we planted seeds of hope for RE at BFUU. Look at how they have flourished, less than a month later!

 

 

 

 

Our Commitment

We closed the workshop by discussing the steps that we need to take to make our vision a reality, and shared our personal commitments. The following is the “to-do” list we developed:


  • Practices, facilities, and programs that attract and retain
  • Money
  • Neighborhood mailing – what our community does for its members
  • Sharing BFUU with family and friends
  • Increase hours of staff
  • Grants-based projects here and outside BFUU
  • Enough teachers/volunteers to step in as we grow
  • Internet/website/social networking
  • Use media to advertise programs
  • Be a teaching congregation
  • Be a religious center: teaching about religions, values, and spiritual practices
  • Teach fundamental life skills: monetary, relational, etc.
  • Small Group entry points
  • Service Groups entry points
  • We get enough visitors each year to start a new congregation! We need to focus on retaining, and not repelling the visitors!
  • No. 1 reason people come is by invitation.
  • Ask people what is important to them, and what they’re excited and passionate about

 

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Pipe cleaners are for people of all ages!

The image to the left represents the individual commitments made by workshop participants.

 

 

 

BFUU Religious Exploration Links:

Meet the Director

Calendar

Children's RE from A to Z

Curriculum

Family Guide

Philosophy of Religious Exploration

Registration